If you feel alone and lost in love, I have just the thing!
Lately, I have had many conversations with loving, heart-centered people who feel hurt. They feel like they are unlucky in love and like their hearts and loved ones have betrayed them.
The truth is matters of the heart can be the most draining. When we feel hurt, betrayed, or abandoned, our heart is communicating to us that it needs healing. When we go through life with a broken heart, we may find that nothing is working in our favor. Even though we know that we are not helpless and hopeless, we still may still feel like we do not have a choice.
When we feel powerless in our circumstances, we are actually withholding love from ourselves. This can manifest in the following ways:
- We numb out or disengage from others.
- We stop speaking our truth and acting upon our desires.
- We may feel like dealing with other people—especially when it comes to dating and in our intimate relationships—is especially exhausting.
- We may also distract ourselves—whether it be with substances, solving other peoples’ problems.
- We start people-pleasing and spreading ourselves thin to receive appreciation, validation, and love from others
All of this is done to avoid real connection. These are choices that block us from receiving giving and receiving love. When we withhold love from ourselves and others, we can feel uninspired and maybe even depressed. This heavy energy blinds us to the miracles that are happening each day. It stifles our creativity and the ability to make and maintain meaningful connections with others.
In times like this, I urge you to remember that you are Divine and that you matter. What does that mean exactly? Your Divinity is your soul. Your soul is your personal source of power. When you are not connected with your soul, it is easy to feel uninspired and disconnected. And when we are not connected to our souls, it is very hard for us to give, receive, and experience love.
For instance, when you are disconnected from your soul and when your heart needs healing, you may often feel like no matter what you do or how hard you try, nothing seems to work out in your favor. This can be highly frustrating and you may even feel disillusioned about love. The key here is to understanding the root cause of the misalignment to love.
And part of your lack of satisfaction and luck in love and relationships is that you might be buying into something that I call a love myth. A love myth is a relationship-sabotaging belief that appears true and harmless—and maybe even helpful in some way—but in reality, this love myth is pretty toxic.
As I am highly committed to serving you in healing your heart and creating relationship bliss, I want to offer you some resources to shed light on these love myths. The first is a video where I begin to scratch the surface of the whole soulmate love myth. Watch this video by clicking on the link below:
Also, I am going to be talking about how to create relationship bliss and shedding light on at least one of the love myths on Katina Love’s Connected With Purpose podcast on Wednesday at 1 PM CST (2 PM EST). Click here to find out how you can listen to the podcast!
In case you missed the last video and want to more information on how you can heal your heart, you can watch this video below:
Cheers to your relationship and love life success!